Au Revoir for Divorce and Unmarried Partners

AU REVOIR FOR DIVORCE AND UNMARRIED PARTNERS is a different approach to divorce. Au Revoir is a process where your attorney will attempt to resolve your issues related to the divorce outside the courtroom. This involves communication, mutual respect and problem solving with opposing counsel, focusing on finding solutions to avoid the financial and emotional costs associated with traditional litigation. Au Revoir offers an opportunity for a quicker resolution with less conflict and more control over the outcome, which can be less expensive. It provides confidentiality and a better outcome for the children. It is a promising alternative to traditional prolonged litigation. In the event litigation is necessary, you can continue to use the Au Revoir approach to resolve the issues. Au Revoir for Divorce and Unmarried Partners – We will meet again.

What is Au Revoir for Divorce and Unmarried Partners

Divorce and separation do not have to begin with a courtroom battle.

Au Revoir for Divorce and Unmarried Partners™ is a structured negotiation method designed to encourage early resolution of disputes through professional, written communication between attorneys before positions harden and litigation escalates.

The phrase “Au Revoir” means “goodbye until we meet again.” It reflects a respectful transition — especially important when children, shared property, or ongoing co-parenting relationships are involved.

How the Au Revoir Method Works

When both parties are represented by counsel, the attorneys:

Communicate in structured written correspondence
Identify and narrow disputed issues
Exchange proposals in an organized format
Attempt to resolve as many issues as possible before court involvement

If full agreement is not reached, unresolved issues may proceed to mediation or litigation. However, narrowing disputes early can significantly reduce cost, delay, and emotional strain.

This method does not replace your right to go to court. Instead, it promotes early, intentional negotiation before litigation becomes necessary.

Why Clients Choose Au Revoir™

Encourages professional, respectful communication
Focuses on resolving issues before court hearings
May reduce unnecessary conflict
Particularly helpful where children are involved
Can be used alongside mediation or litigation

Even if every issue is not resolved, this approach often reduces the number of contested matters before mediation or trial.

Is This Collaborative Law?

No. Au Revoir™ is not a collaborative law agreement and does not require special contracts or withdrawal provisions. It is a structured negotiation approach that can be used in traditional divorce or custody cases.

When Is It Appropriate?

Au Revoir for Divorce and Unmarried Partners™ may be appropriate when:

Both parties are willing to negotiate
There is no immediate emergency requiring court intervention
The goal is to resolve issues efficiently and respectfully

If court action becomes necessary, representation continues in the traditional litigation process.

Interested in a More Structured Approach to Divorce?

If you are facing divorce or separation and want to explore a more intentional and organized negotiation process before going to court, contact our office to learn whether Au Revoir for Divorce and Unmarried Partners™ may be right for your case.

Contact

Contact Susan for more information on Au Revoir Divorce for Divorce and Unmarried Partners

susan@stresslessattorney.com

228-278-8106